A couple of years ago, during a time of crisis in my company, I realized I’d created a mess. But the scariest thing was I didn’t know what I’d done wrong. Of all the many things I did, what, exactly, was making things go so badly? It turned out that most of my problems were caused by bad interviewing technique. I was setting every interview up for failure, and I didn’t know it.
Fortunately for my company, around this same time I hired a CEO coach who helped me to put things in order and taught me what I was doing wrong. One of the first things he did was observe me while I recruited. Afterwards he talked with me about it. “This is your main problem,” he said. “You’re making classic interviewing mistakes. And as a result, you can’t evaluate people well, you’ve brought on some people who are not a fit for the organization, and a lot of the stress you’re experiencing is coming directly from that.”
I couldn’t understand at first, but I decided to put aside my judgment and do what he told me. And it worked. Here’s a synopsis.
Stop Fearing, Start Listening
The main thing I was doing was trying to sell candidates on the opportunity. I was afraid they wouldn’t join, so I was trying to convince them to. This isn’t inherently bad, but my fear of losing a candidate was blinding me.
The first big no-no in interviewing is to fear losing a candidate. You need to understand that the vast majority of people you’ll talk to are not the right fit. And you have to stop fearing that. Fear of losing a candidate will cause you to bring on the wrong people, and a single poor fit can do more damage than five good ones can fix.
Trying to convince someone to join leads to failing to really listen and learn who they are. The interview is the main opportunity to truly get to know the candidate. There’s no way you can do that when you’re afraid they won’t join. You’re also trying to convince them they’re right for the job, and they naturally want to believe they are, so you’re setting them up for failure too, by preventing them from sensing and opting out of a bad situation.
Ask Open-Ended Questions, No Hypotheticals
The second big problem is asking hypothetical questions, such as “how would you design this system?” or “if you were in in this situation, what would you do?” This flies in the face of a lot of interviewing wisdom, which urges you to put candidates into the situations they’ll actually face and see what they’d do. There are two troubles with this approach: one, you can’t actually do it; it’s all play-acting and not real. Two, you are telegraphing what you’re looking for, and the candidate will parrot it back to you, perhaps unconsciously.
When you signal what you’re looking for, and ask the candidate if they can do it, of course they’ll say they can. They can’t help it. You ask, “this job requires a lot of persistence in the face of adversity. Can you do that?” The candidate replies, “oh, sure! I’m the most persistent person you’ll ever meet!” Once you’ve done this, you don’t have a chance to un-bias the process anymore. You’ve spoiled it all. You’ll have a really hard time figuring out if this person is actually resilient or not.
So what should you do instead? It begins with a really clear understanding of what you’re hiring for. This is beyond the scope of this blog post, but understanding at a very deep level what you’re trying to achieve with this hire is absolutely vital. Once you know that, you can listen and observe to see whether the candidate has those abilities or not.
And from then on, the process is very simple. Ask only about past performance. Period. No matter what the books and blog posts say. Don’t ask what they do. Don’t ask what they can do. Don’t ask what they will do. Ask only what they have already done. This is the only thing that’s true and verifiable. No reference can tell you whether Joe will solve the problem the way he hypothetically predicts he will (and sincerely wants to, even if he can’t). But references can tell you whether Joe did what he claimed he did on that big project he says he’s proud of. And by listening to how Joe talks about challenges he’s faced, and how he tried to solve them, and what he expected to happen, and what happened, and how it worked, and what he learned, and how he worked with others, and how he tried it differently next time… you learn who Joe is and how he really thinks.
This is the gold mine in interviewing. Ask questions like “tell me about a time you…” and then just listen. Follow up with specific questions to probe into the details. “How did you do that?” “What happened?” “Who did you do that with?”
And, if you’re the person who’ll be checking references, the final zinger is to ask, “Who was your boss at the time?” and then “when I call that person, what will they tell me about this project?” This is the ultimate truth serum. You’re telling people that you’re going to actually verify their stories. If they’re lying to you, you’ll know right away.
Many interviews won’t be conducted at that level of scrutiny. For most interviewers, it’s good to stay away from that; the main thing is to ask only past-tense questions, and dig deeper with followups that get into more and more specifics.
Hiring For Trajectory
But… but… shouldn’t you hire for trajectory, and not just experience? Sure. You can absolutely tell whether someone’s a shooting star by understanding how they approached tough challenges in past jobs (even if those tough challenges were trivial for someone with more experience). You can do this by asking questions about what challenged them and how they responded to it.
A nice, easy to way to remember this is to ask the Most Significant Accomplishment question. “What’s the thing you’re proudest of?” Follow that up with deeper and deeper questions. It should be a natural conversation. The candidate should be proud of that and should tell a story, and you’re essentially complimenting them with your attention by asking them to tell you more and more about it.
There’s a lot more to interviewing than this, but if you stay away from whiteboarding, pseudo-code, role-play, hypothetical how-would-you, and anything else that can be gotten through with acting skills or that provides the candidate with subliminal hints about what you’re looking for, you’ll avoid the most common traps.
Books Worth Reading
I’ll end this post by saying that people who recruit fulltime, for a living, can often get good results by ignoring some of this advice. But just like occasional negotiators will end up being taken advantage of by those who do it for a living, ordinary rank-and-file employees who are called upon to interview a candidate will fail if they try to use pro techniques. They should be trained to just ask questions and listen. They don’t recruit 40 hours a week. They aren’t pros. All they need to do is start a conversation and keep being interested and engaged. Just listening.
If you’re interested in books that can help you improve your hiring process, I’d suggest taking a look at Topgrading by Brad Smart, or Who by Geoff Smart.
I’ve read a lot of books on interviewing and hiring, and although I don’t fully conform to their advice, their books are the closest published materials I’ve found to the hiring process my CEO coach and I have developed. Many other books are written by professional recruiters and overlook the fact that their audience isn’t recruiters, and their advice doesn’t work for non-recruiters. I would include in this category the book Hire With Your Head.