This article is written as food for thought for men.
I’ve witnessed much debate in the last few years about whether “you guys” is gender-neutral.
It’s no surprise that many men think it is, the dictionary agrees, and more women say it’s not.
All this is natural given our culture, and I’d be surprised if it weren’t this way.
But my observation is that it’s needlessly hurtful.
We can do better, we should, and many of us do.